… her easy generous smile.
I will not forget her telling me that quitting was not an option.
I remember her hugs and kisses as a child to reassure me that I was always loved and safe.
I will not forget her easy hospitality to anyone who came to our home.
I remember seeing her pain the night before I left for America for college.
I will not forget her pride in the independence she raised me on as well as many of my accomplishments.
I remember the sense of adventure at jungle stream picnics with cousins and friends on my pre-teen birthdays and her well traveled life to all parts of the world.
I will not forget her unfailing support in my dire times of need even as a young adult.
I remember when our relationship grew to include friend and confidant.
I will not forget our change in roles later in life as parent and child.
I remember her finishing off a 5 gallon tub of ice cream and blaming a younger version of herself for sneaking it out of the fridge.
I will not forget how everyday was Christmas for a good month and a half.
I remember her gratitude in her last days with signature phrases like “You are so good to me” and “Thank You for everything you do”.
I will not forget that even when a voice would not emerge she would still mouth those words.
I remember today is her birthday.
I will not forget her gentle and quiet impact on everyone she touched and the courage she taught me to live.
EDIT: Here is one of her favorite songs.